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Over half of Britons stalk their exes online

Over half of Britons stalk their exes online

People search sites such as www.yasni.co.uk allow you to see most of a person's listings on the Internet

While many of us have taken advantage of Facebook and MySpace to catch up catch up with old school friends and work colleagues, a recent survey has revealed that we also have an unfortunate habit of sniffing around our exes to see what they’ve been up to since the breakup, as well as indulging in our own personal ego trips by Googling ourselves.

In fact, according to the survey recently conducted by people search site Yasni, 97 percent of us have attempted to massage our egos by searching for our own names using a search engine. The survey involved talking to over 1,700 members of the British public, and it also revealed some disturbing habits when it comes to stalking ex-partners and former adversaries online.

Over half of the respondents (54 percent) admitted that they’d searched for an ex partner online, and a quarter of those said they’d done it more than once. Apparently, 21 percent of those looking for their former flames cited jealousy as the reason, while nine percent chose the simple ‘because I knew I wouldn’t be caught’ answer. Meanwhile, 57 percent said that they were looking merely out of curiosity.

On average, women were slightly more likely to search for ex partners online than men. Similarly, 46 percent of the respondents in the survey admitted to searching for someone that they claimed to dislike. Celebrities also proved to be paricularly popular, with 93 percent of the respondents admitting to searching for a famous individual on a social networking site or search engine.

Commenting on the findings, Yasni’s CEO Steffen Ruehl said that ‘curiosity is an interesting thing; it is human nature to investigate. It can make people search for people they may dislike, or people they have had personal relationships with in the past. The fact that so many Brits use the internet and services like ours to provide them with undetectable access to other people’s lives is a fact of today’s online society.’ Ruehl also pointed out that you can help to stop potential stalkers by setting your social networking profiles to private.

Although you can never solely rely on surveys and statistics to represent the habits of a nation, it’s interesting to see that so many of us admit to stalking exes and people we don’t like online. How often do you Google yourself, and have you ever looked for an ex online to see what they’re up to? Feel free to share your cyber stalking habits in the forums.

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will. 19th February 2009, 11:25 Quote
The real question here is are you top of Google for your own name?
Gareth Halfacree 19th February 2009, 11:37 Quote
I'm the top hit for my name on Google, but that's hardly a challenge!
pimlicosound 19th February 2009, 11:43 Quote
The only hits on my name are for me. Apparently my name is unique on a global scale.
Tyrmot 19th February 2009, 12:28 Quote
I not only get top listing in Google Web but also in Google Images! Not sure if that's good or bad though...
freedom810 19th February 2009, 13:07 Quote
My username gives me better results compared to my real name.
DarkFear 19th February 2009, 13:30 Quote
I don't make for good Google material :

Your search - xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx - did not match any documents.

Suggestions:

* Make sure all words are spelled correctly.
* Try different keywords.
* Try more general keywords.
* Try fewer keywords.


At least it makes stalking more of a challenge :D

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...and MySpace to catch up catch up with...
First sentence of article, one "catch up" too many...
Krazeh 19th February 2009, 13:40 Quote
Sharing the same name as the ex-Executive Vice President of Sony Computer Entertainment Europe makes it very tricky for me to be top of google for my own name.
pizan 19th February 2009, 13:48 Quote
It doesn't help there to be an author with your name...
steveo_mcg 19th February 2009, 13:58 Quote
Or a rapper of some description...
whisperwolf 19th February 2009, 15:08 Quote
Hang on surely there is a slight difference between googleing a name once and "Stalking", Or does my one search for venison recipes classify me as obsessed with Bambi
Matticus 19th February 2009, 15:17 Quote
When I read the title I read it as, half of britons stalk their .exes online. You can imagine me trying to work that one out for a minute.

I am not the top google result for my name, It always comes up with did you mean "this popular christian singer/song writer whose name is just one letter off yours" but then below that when it does search my name it is just a few peoples facebooks.

It used to be me when my old band had our website up.

"On average, women were slightly more likely to search for ex partners online than men." I can see that being very true, crazy women. :p
pendragon 19th February 2009, 18:23 Quote
these days the only reason I google my own name is to be careful of what shows up when my name is googled... need to control your own online presence and all that
Cupboard 19th February 2009, 18:24 Quote
Googling your names isn't necessarily for an ego trip, sometimes it is useful to know what information other people can find out about you, even if it is just so you can go and remove it.
Mongoose132 19th February 2009, 21:37 Quote
Mine comes up with a photo of four Chinese men.. :S
Red 5 19th February 2009, 23:09 Quote
Googling my real name gives me authors, doctors, TV presenters and even streets. Google images gives me a picture of Jeremy Irons. Red 5 gets me a chain of gadget shops and a whole bunch of unrelated pictures, however another of my internet aliases puts me top of the returns.
rhuitron 20th February 2009, 00:50 Quote
I know I do!

LOL!
Nah, I rather not "Poke that Bear".
Ninja_182 20th February 2009, 02:00 Quote
Amongst others I lost out to a politician, a psychiatrist and Bronco Bill of all people. I guess im too common.

I dont really search for them, they are still on friend lists and I come across updates regularly
format 20th February 2009, 02:10 Quote
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Originally Posted by pimlicosound
The only hits on my name are for me. Apparently my name is unique on a global scale.

There's only one person I've found with the same first name, and definitely no people with the the same first and last :)
MiNiMaL_FuSS 20th February 2009, 07:50 Quote
If you google my user you get my Football Manager 07 tactic that got posted all over the world and had over 300,000 downloads from it's original hosting site (although I just found it on a japanese site too :D really must play fm again...
C0nKer 20th February 2009, 11:14 Quote
It only leads me to my facebook account.

Last time I did ego-googling on my roommate, and he got quite a few hit with few research projects under his name.
Pookeyhead 20th February 2009, 11:41 Quote
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Originally Posted by Krazeh
Sharing the same name as the ex-Executive Vice President of Sony Computer Entertainment Europe makes it very tricky for me to be top of google for my own name.

Same problem here. Sharing a name with a famous US TV journalist and newscaster doesn't help.
steveo_mcg 20th February 2009, 11:50 Quote
The was a news caster called pook? :P
Fused 4th August 2010, 12:46 Quote
Googling my real name gets you loads of rather unrelated business men and strange bebo profiles. Still that's good misinformation!

Haven't tried my user, probably too simple.
Gareth Halfacree 4th August 2010, 12:50 Quote
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Originally Posted by Fused
Googling my real name gets you loads of rather unrelated business men and strange bebo profiles. Still that's good misinformation!
I'm slightly easier to find - in fact, searching on my full name makes it quite difficult to find anyone that *isn't* me. Even surname only gives a large percentage over to me.

A blessing or a burden?
Cthippo 4th August 2010, 22:41 Quote
My real name gets you "Chris Camp, the whip guy" (not me)

Cthippo on the other hand is all me :D
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