Like Father, Like Son
Posted on 26th Feb 2010 at 10:59 by Joe Martin with 39 comments
I had an interesting experience the other day. It was late and I, staggering home from a party through the streets of Reading, overheard something unusual. My ears caught a familiar word in the lull between the music I was listening to and I looked around. It was a dreary, drizzly night and the streets were almost empty, so it didn’t take me long to locate the source.
The word I had heard was ‘Tegra’ and what I saw was a father walking behind me, explaining something to his young son. The kid must have been no older than 11, in fact.
Now, I should clarify that I don’t really know very much about Tegra. I know the basics, but my knowledge pales in comparison to the rest of the bit-tech.net and Custom PC staff. It’s why you don’t see me writing graphic card reviews. Still, I knew enough to follow a bit of this eavesdropped conversation in which the Dad explained what Tegra was to his boy.
I was intrigued. It wasn’t the type of conversation you’d expect to hear on a city street at 11AM and the fact that the boy was earnestly interested fascinated me. Discreetly and slyly, I stopped my music and let the pair overtake me. We were heading in the same direction and I wanted to hear more about the conversation, so I listened in for a bit as I made my way home.

Like father, like son
I only followed the two for a few minutes before the turned down a different path and I decided to stay my course and guide my sobering body back to bed, but I heard them have a remarkable discussion. The father (I presume he was the Dad anyway, not just some friendly IT consultant who’d picked up a follower) told his son all about what Tegra was, how it worked and what it meant for current software trends. I can’t remember the exact words, but he ended up prophesising something bad about Tegra's influence on future hardware.
What amazed me most though was the fact that the boy was actually listening to all this, asking questions when he could which belied a knowledge deeper than mine. Clearly, the boy knew a lot about hardware – and it seemed that he had inherited it from his Dad.
That got me thinking along similar lines, making me wonder if I hadn’t once shared discussions with my Dad about computers or videogames. I’ve spoken before about how important my Dad was in encouraging my interest in games and how he has at times shared it, but I always considered that a bit of a fluke. I, perhaps naively, didn’t really consider that such enthusiasm was so often inherited or passed down.
So, if my story isn’t as unique as I once presumed, then tell me yours. Was there someone who encouraged you to take an interest in computers and gaming or was it something you came to on your own? Is your enthusiasm based on nature or nurture? Hit the comments below and let me know your thoughts.
The word I had heard was ‘Tegra’ and what I saw was a father walking behind me, explaining something to his young son. The kid must have been no older than 11, in fact.
Now, I should clarify that I don’t really know very much about Tegra. I know the basics, but my knowledge pales in comparison to the rest of the bit-tech.net and Custom PC staff. It’s why you don’t see me writing graphic card reviews. Still, I knew enough to follow a bit of this eavesdropped conversation in which the Dad explained what Tegra was to his boy.
I was intrigued. It wasn’t the type of conversation you’d expect to hear on a city street at 11AM and the fact that the boy was earnestly interested fascinated me. Discreetly and slyly, I stopped my music and let the pair overtake me. We were heading in the same direction and I wanted to hear more about the conversation, so I listened in for a bit as I made my way home.

Like father, like son
I only followed the two for a few minutes before the turned down a different path and I decided to stay my course and guide my sobering body back to bed, but I heard them have a remarkable discussion. The father (I presume he was the Dad anyway, not just some friendly IT consultant who’d picked up a follower) told his son all about what Tegra was, how it worked and what it meant for current software trends. I can’t remember the exact words, but he ended up prophesising something bad about Tegra's influence on future hardware.
What amazed me most though was the fact that the boy was actually listening to all this, asking questions when he could which belied a knowledge deeper than mine. Clearly, the boy knew a lot about hardware – and it seemed that he had inherited it from his Dad.
That got me thinking along similar lines, making me wonder if I hadn’t once shared discussions with my Dad about computers or videogames. I’ve spoken before about how important my Dad was in encouraging my interest in games and how he has at times shared it, but I always considered that a bit of a fluke. I, perhaps naively, didn’t really consider that such enthusiasm was so often inherited or passed down.
So, if my story isn’t as unique as I once presumed, then tell me yours. Was there someone who encouraged you to take an interest in computers and gaming or was it something you came to on your own? Is your enthusiasm based on nature or nurture? Hit the comments below and let me know your thoughts.






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Discuss in the forums ReplyAlso, if you were staggering home at 11AM it must've been one helluva party ;-)
Its a similar story with cars and pretty much everything else with electronics in them...
:D
My dad was a musician and only one of us has gone down that route but we did game together sometimes. I used to try and convince my mum that games are an art form but she only ever really played Snake and Simon the Sorcerer.
What I did inherit from my father is the love of technology, especially new technology. I remember him bringing home such technological marvels in the 70's - like a pong game or one of the early Philips VCRs (which he could never get to work and ended up taking back). To this day, if it's shiny and new and electronic, I lust after it :p
http://ecx.images-amazon.com/images/I/31RzC9DmTnL._SL500_AA280_.jpg
sorry, couldnt resist :D
He also introduced me to such greats as Warcraft, Worms, Full Throttle, Civilisation, System Shock, and all the great games of the time.
he died when I was still only a kid, but his influences have definitely had an effect on me. I find it no coincidence that I love Starcraft (and am on the beta), nor do I find it less than obvious why I enjoy games like Bioshock, Battlefield and Half-Life. And damn, Worms never gets old. Does it?
while im a pretty heavy gamer i have not once tried to get him to play anything, he just got on my chair 1 day and started randomly hitting buttons on the keyboard. After 5 minutes of me showing him what button does what he now plays monster truck nitro and can complete the first 10 or so levels by himself within the time limit.
Now i started noticing him taking an interest in what else i play, not wanting a go but happily sitting there watching, making the odd comment. Interest growing.
Its scary, as at that age i was expecting him to play with cars and toy blocks not wanting to sit around and watch me play EvE
But my fascination for Pc comes from not having on when every one of my high school friends having one. saying that I'm turning my nice in to a pc geek and she is only 4 :)
Building my own pc at 16 was the scariest and most satisfying moment of my life and I plan to pass that down to my budding little gamer but at 5 he just likes Ben 10 on the DS but he will learn. It's probably one of the few ways PC gaming will really go forward with the next generation of kids.
My mother used it more than my dad though.
And yes, I still have all of said computers (not the ones after those though)
I mean "C'mon!" is that anything to be ashamed of?
Now, he's worked for Telewest, IBM and the MoD, and I've worked for publishing firms, DHL and the NHS.
My dad would always bring home the latest machine along with games.
I taught myself some programming when I was 7
During my teenage years, personal issues resulted in me spending way too much time alone at home on my computer. I got good, real good. However after a while when you see everyone else around you succeeding in life you want to actually do something with yours so I tried to stop messing around and I got a diploma in network management. It's a good diploma and I will never be out of a job with it. I also wouldn't be studying IT engineering without this diploma
I wouldn't have this today if it weren't from my brother and my love for computers back then
I grew up wanting to be a programmer just like him.. it's funny though I never learned unix and went strait from atari basic to some assembly.. he's lost in windows and hates it- I'm lost in unix
so I dunno if you entirely get whatever your parents do.. also he doesn't play games- I think he tried to play me one time when I was 10.. we used to play alot of chess together though up until high school.. then he couldn't beat me anymore, I learned all his splits and tricks and couldn't get a game going with him for the life of me after that.. learned alot from him though.. he took me fishing which I love and some hunting ;) can sit out there for hours on end
He dabbles in web design, and other code too.
He got me onto my first PC (Windows 3.1, 386?)
Not to mention, customers frequently mention how young the people in computer shops are.
It's ok, we're supporting the older generation :)
Um, actually that was a typo. Supposed to be 11PM. I don't party that hard usually. Right now I'm wearing a cardigan.
well, now, im in UK's best electronics university, one of world's top 100 overall, and in around top 5 for electronics. thanks to him, learnt many things and experiences that hopefully will be useful to me later on in life.
but like father like son, i have now dived into high level synthesis, which are basically algorithms for automating C/Matlab to hardware..... so i will probably be heading to where he is: algorithm writer. (currently just a researcher)
(sorry, don't mean to gloat, but not many electronics university get instant IET membership on graduation, and are instant Chartered Engineers)
However my dad's a n00b. My mum taught me a lot of what I know about pcs. We started messing with the 486, and then the pentium2 we got when they were brand new. Messing and fiddling taught me what I know. I knew how to install windows 95 about 3 weeks after it was released in NZ. w00t (i was 9 btw). i only hope my kids follow the path. My 15mo old son watches me play games and can't help but play typing and using the mouse on the other pc. My 1week old daughter already knows the sound of typing and it relaxes her it seems
Was working here on weekends, etc for longer than I can remember
A year ago my 3yo twins, got to mash my PS2 joypads on lego star wars for five minutes when it was pulled out of the cupboard for a friends kid we were baby sitting.
A month ago they got a single go each on some wii based rock band drum action, which they really loved and were pretty good at at.
That's the entire limit of their gaming experience, they are little kids for Mario's sake, there'll be a time when I won't be able to get them off a damn pc / console / slate / smart phone / netbook / tablet / nettop but may that day be a long way away.
While they are happy dragging me out to splash in puddles and kick mud around gaming is not going to get a look in.
The same goes for cars. He tinkers with cars (rebuilding a '69 Mustang GT as a mid-life crisis) and I definitely love to play with my Evo.
Personally I believe that our parent's have a huge input on what we do later in life as they are the first influences on our thought processes. They teach us how to make decisions and deal with the world in general at a very early stage in our development. The synaptic pathways that are built then are only reinforced as we grow older.
We got our first family PC when I was 9, after I started playing FIFA 97, Theme Hospital and the original C&C I didn't look back, but couldn't get ANY of my family members to join in, ever, on consoles or PC.
Going to an all-boys boarding school certainly encouraged it, weekly Saturday night LAN parties were fab.
My niece is going to be different, I think, my brother in law is even more of a techie and a gamer than I am, she already loves playing on the CBeebies website